After last week his fight over Michael’s Instagram DMsWhen Angela said she would be leaving for good if she didn’t check out her husband’s phone, the couple ended their conversation about their social media accounts.
In Sunday night’s episode, Angela, 56, said in a confessional that her friend convinced her to go back to Michael and let him apologize.
“But a man can’t correct his mistakes if, in his mind, they’re not wrong,” Angela said. “He won’t even show his wife what’s on her phone? What am I supposed to think? Are you scamming me, are you cheating on me? You’re up to something.”
She burst into tears, saying that she still loves her husband “but that doesn’t mean [she’s] I will make the decision to stay.”
Michael, 34, approached Angela and asked her to speak, but she said she wasn’t ready. He put a hand on her back and said, “You know I love you,” but she said, “No, I don’t know you love me!”
Michael later said in a confessional, “I think we both made mistakes, but I think Angela is only telling one side of the story and making me look like a bad boy.”
tried to explain that social media was meant to provide you with income because Angela didn’t send him enough to cover his needs.
“I have no choice but to start making money on my own,” he insisted. “As a 34-year-old man in Nigeria, he is expected to take care of my family. In my culture, it’s what we do. We work. We have responsibility. We have bills to pay.
The two started talking to each other as Michael tried to explain his position, but Angela made her own clear.
“I don’t give a fuck about the money, bitch!” she yelled, throwing her bag on the ground and standing up to yell at her husband. “Opportunist!”
Michael asked her to calm down saying “of course” that he wasn’t trying to scam her.
“Why can’t you trust me either?” he asked her.
“Because you f—ers can’t be trusted!” she screamed.
In a confessional, Angela reaffirmed her position and asked how much money Michael would actually make on social media.
“I don’t know how to say this without being rude, but you have to be interesting. He has no charisma,” she said. “Michael blocked me on Instagram so maybe his plan to be an influencer and make money from social media is a cover up. The only reason Michael would block me is because he’s flirting with women.”
Back at the restaurant, Angela confronted Michael about his belief that he was talking to other women.
“You sound so selfish,” Michael told her, pointing out that he had engaged in a flirty duet with a stranger on his own social media.
“Can I tell you why I did that?” Angela asked. “It started to get your attention. I lost weight, they don’t ask you to see my breasts, they don’t ask you to see my vagina, they don’t ask you to see anything. You don’t tell me you love.” me. And I see this guy and he’s sexy. And I said, ‘Michael is going to be jealous.'”
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Angela said that she was disappointed that Michael didn’t respond or ask her to remove it.
“You know I don’t talk much,” he replied.
Angela then revealed that her husband’s long-awaited visa was close to being approved, but she wasn’t sure she wanted him to have it anymore.
“And you know what [their lawyer] he told me? If we have problems now, when you’re doing this IG shit, you know I’d be upset? to file for divorce, withdraw visas,” she said.
“Don’t talk like that,” Michael said. “By Instagram? Come on.”
Angela gave him an ultimatum: remove his Instagram or they would be finished.
“He needs to show his wife that I’m more important than material shit. I want him to because he sees what it’s doing to our relationship,” Angela said in a confessional.
“I’ll give you until morning,” he told Michael.
“The ultimatum is disgusting,” Michael said in a confessional. “It can’t be your way all the time.”
He added that this was a pattern with Angela, saying, “I don’t want to be a silent partner.”
Michael concluded, “I’m getting tired of everything, honestly.”
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